Barbara and I met on Match.com. We chatted online for about a week and then I asked her if she wanted to go for coffee or a drink. I was so nervous. She said yes and our first date was at a Restaurant in Valley Cottage. Little did I know AJ was the chef their and he and many of Barbara’s friends where there also. I was truly caught off guard but felt it was very cool. We left the restaurant and went to her house. Looking back, I know that we both had found something incredibly special. A few days after we met was her birthday, AJ and his friend where taking her to a comedy club in NYC she asked me if I would like to go, of course I said yes. That night again I realized how special she was. The comedian focused on our table and challenged her as to why she was the only woman at the table. She immediately and proudly said that they were her sons. Just about everyone was a different race. The comedian said what did you do eat a box of crayons before you had sex. Barbara replied that is right I am the Crayola Mom..