I just want to put my ass in the sand.

By far the best adventure was to Los Angeles. We took a trip to Hawaii. For the first few days it was the most romantic time we had. Until we decided to go to Mauna Kea Observatory. It is located in the middle of nowhere and I missed judged the gas Capacity of the car. On our way back we didn’t have much gas left and we still had a long way to go on a very deserted road in the dark. To this day I am not sure whether she was madder at me or simply scared, but it was a stressful hour till we found a gas station. Of course, I was saying she was worrying for nothing (that did not go over well). This was my second silent treatment from Barbara. Then we went to Maui.  I became obsessed with sightseeing.  For the first 3 days she was a trooper letting me explore what I needed to explore. Then one morning she woke me up early and said, “You have been in charge however where in Hawaii and I just want to put my ass in the sand”.  She said it with love and she didn’t have to hit me in the back of the head to get her point across. From that moment on it was like a light went off in my soul. We had a glorious time going from beach to beach putting our asses in the sand together.